During the monthly Men’s Mental Health Meet-up, held at the Tubman African American Museum in Macon-Bibb County, the conversation turned to recent community violence, specifically a shooting involving teenagers that left many residents in shock. This gathering coincided with successful local events, including a multi-school reunion, showcasing the community's positive side before the violence overshadowed it.
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The fourth Monday of the month brought together a smaller group of men, who usually focus on personal health but felt compelled to discuss the shooting, which had been a hot topic since it occurred. Participants shared the prevailing sentiment of concern and trauma in their community.
One attendee remarked on the impact of trauma on children, stating, "Everything starts with the trauma you have, and kids pick up everything. So they have their own trauma." Another participant shared a personal story about his stepson, now in jail despite growing up with the same opportunities as his other children, highlighting the unpredictability of youth behavior.
Even amidst these difficult discussions, the men also explored their own emotional well-being and self-care strategies. One participant noted his sense of peace since joining the group over a year ago, calling it therapeutic. They discussed the importance of distinguishing between genuine emergencies and self-imposed stress, with another participant emphasizing the need to be intentional about self-care.
Despite acknowledging the challenges of parenting in today's world, the men reflected on their own experiences, understanding that their past struggles could serve as lessons for younger generations. "I may not have dealt with my issues the right way, but people can still learn from me," one member said.
The group recognized the need for increased mentoring for children, particularly from men, and discussed existing mentoring programs as essential resources. Participants agreed on the importance of making connections with younger individuals and ensuring they have access to guidance, even if they choose not to take it.
The meeting concluded with an emphasis on the shared struggles of the community, underscoring a collective desire to reach out and support each other. The Meet-ups, which occur on the fourth Monday of each month from 6:00-7:30 p.m. at various locations, are open to the public and hosted by Macon Violence Prevention and Macon Mental Health Matters. The discussions are typically facilitated by Stacey Phillips from Clasped Hands Counseling, LLC.